Her first suicide attempt was at age 14, and she’d been to rehab four times by 19. We aren’t twins - I’m a year older than my sister. They both make easy targets for each other to take their resentment out on. But it sounds like you’re upset that they won’t stop playing to talk when you want to . Animal Crossing, for those who have yet to be consumed, is a Nintendo game that lets you fish, plant trees, make furniture, and generally be merry as one of many little digital villagers. Your challenge with Bella is that she fell down and you and your family have been carrying her. So, with being stuck home bc of Covid-19, Homeschooling, and now Snow, we decided to bring the outside decorations inside, by creating our own interactive Animal Crossing Island. So if they need one just let me know. Maybe find a hobby that has head phones.....it’s a game your in quarantine she’s probably bored and that’s the only thing giving her joy during this /taking her mind off things maybe find something to do the same rather then sit around and feel jealous of a game. If Bella heard from Amy "You are beautiful, Bella" or even "I understand," that can go such a long way for Bella. There’s a lot of assumptions about gaming and “but society!! And that’s a you problem. Your life seems like it can be very stressful, but it the MOST important that you know this is not your fault. Amy of course immediately got angry and my father yelled at Bella to apologize, but before anything else was said Amy just screamed at Bella, saying she was a burden on our family, and that Bella stole her teenage years because she constantly had to worry about her rather than enjoy life. NO NEW THREADS FOR: Trading, giveaways, questions, code sharing, Nook/Lisa Simpson suggestion image macros. I've texted all my friends for help but honestly my culture doesn't have a good understanding of mental health and I haven't said much about my family issues to them... one of them said that Bella was 'being a brat' and another said I should get Bella committed and I'm horrified. After that, I wondered. If you need to, ask her for short date time (20-30 minutes) at some other time. She’s probably just as annoyed as you are. This isn’t healthy for you or her. I believe in you. 3rdly, I posted under r/personalfinance as well for the money questions, but here for relationship advice. If it's not on the TV then she's on the couch playing or in the backyard playing (like our physical backyard). Gone are the days of kids sitting on their roofs or in their tree houses because they can go into a digital dreamscape. Thank you, that gives me some much needed direction right now. My brother has been in the hospital so many times I've lost count. Maybe you could make a temp character on her game and have a cute museum date together (maybe occupied with some ocean nature documentaries afterwards?). I massively agree with the first paragraph. As we have all been quarantining, Bella has been playing Animal Crossing nonstop. !” In this comment and I have to say, I disagree. FINAL EDIT: We’ve done the necessary talks and a therapy session for Amy is scheduled this week! as romantic, Nintendo has clarified the pair's relationship via the game's official companion guide. I've been crying for hours and at a loss for what to do. Bella spiralled and she was diagnosed with depression, her first therapist tried to prescribe medication but they made her feel worse and she was crying every night. Both of them are wonderful people and they have been raised by you, a wonderful parent. /r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors. In this episode of r/relationships we meet a boyfriend who is at his wit's end regarding his girlfriend's obsession with Animal Crossing New Horizons. I've told hey multiple times how it makes me feel when she ignores me or I have to repeat myself multiple times after "gaining her attention for a moment" while she's playing. I bet she’s had to deal with the same behavior from you for your entire relationship. What makes me upset is that she would say how much it bothered her that we didn't spend more time together during the day (when I need to sleep), can't stay up at night ("too tired"), and I made the sacrifice of being awake to spend time with her. I was Amy, down to the twin thing, down to the suicide thing, it was terrible. - but couldn’t shake the feeling that I’d be adding to their problems. Right? If you just have one or two GOOD friends that can make such a difference! Regarding your daughters, these troubles will happen with families, especially, like you said, in a culture not as open to mental health. I realize this might sound silly, but why not make a date? It sounds like you are a wonderful mom and truly love your kids, and I don't doubt you'll do what's necessary to get them back to happiness and wellness again. Sending mom hugs. Maybe schedule time with her for movies or dinner or have certain periods throughout the week to spend time with her and then each of you can have time alone. They are way bigger than you can solve on your own with your father. This way you don’t feel left out and she doesn’t feel like she has no time to herself. Remind them that you're family and that families fight sometimes but it's not okay to speak to each other that way. Amy has a boyfriend currently which I feel Bella is also jealous about. Animal Crossing DIY Home Edition. First off- I wouldn’t try to talk to her while she’s playing. Go for a swim, cross-breed flowers and other ways to make the most of Nintendo's hit game. Doing things with her to release stress is a great idea. Audio books, video games, movies, music, YouTube etc. There's no way I can reply to everyone but here's great news: Amy just knocked on my door, we've talked and she wants to apologize to Bella. I would suggest looking at bullet journals for both of them. With her you need to be proactive about helping her release her stress. Otherwise, I’d say maybe try cooking together or meal planning. Sometimes it doesn't matter how "the world" comes through for you so much as that it does. Just days after the reliable Animal Crossing dataminer Ninji revealed how certain villagers will only send you fake ... Word of advice, you'll never be happy with social media. I felt so neglected in my teen years. NO NEW THREADS FOR: Trading, giveaways, questions, code sharing, Nook/Lisa Simpson suggestion image macros. I was Amy as well. Okay first off I don’t agree with most of these posts if you’re not into something after trying it...it’s not for you and that’s okay. It helped me a lot when I was going through a depressive phase. After being neglected so long, Amy may harbor a lot of resentment toward OP. Every time you set her down she falls down again so you carry her some more. I'll look into family counselling as another person said I really hope it works. They are different people with different feelings, but fundamentally, a miscommunication is happening. If you wait she may leave and not come back - not because she has any ill will towards you, but because she feels there isn’t room for her. So I never told them. Bella doesn't respond well to therapy over the computer and prefers face-to-face so hopefully her therapist can also put her appointment forward. No. Whether this is your first Animal Crossing … Need help with your relationship? Op I’m curious how much time you spend gaming as well? Animal Crossing New Horizons' Pascal is becoming a fan favorite NPC in the popular island life sim.The hipster sea otter has made his way into Animal Crossing New Horizons with the first summer update, which also brought the return of swimming from Animal Crossing: New Leaf into the game. After he found a post and it led to an argument, I stopped asking for advice in general, even on my new account when I made it. You need to sit down with Amy and talk about why she said what she did, and have her explain why it was wrong. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve. Although players may be tempted to jump forward or backward time in "Animal Crossing: New Horizons," it hurts the natural flow of the life simulator game by Nintendo for the Nintendo Switch. I didn't think of it that way. - We recently started playing the game and my 3 kids love it. Putting life into routines helps to clear the fog in the mind. I wouldn’t take it personally, but you should talk to her and make sure she knows how much you love and appreciate her. Therapy asap. I’m in my 40s now - I would have given anything for someone to even ask me how I was doing back then. Has she made any designs in the game? Yes even I used to make fun of people with depression, I would read posts about people not wanting to get up and think "what kind of person can't even get out of bed" but now I understand. Need help with your relationship? I think you just need to make some time as a couple. She gave up. Your girls are at a difficult age. I've tried playing with her and it's not my cup of tea. You need to look after her because she is going to crash and burn otherwise, her emotions have never been prioritised so she won’t know how to prioritise them. Yes!! I’m doing ok, but am not really close with my family in that way. Also a few people guessed we are from Singapore haha, I thought I was as vague as possible but I guess sinkie know sinkie. Animal Crossing: New Horizons Go to Animal Crossing: New Horizons game detail page. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! If you want to get the most out of your chill island experience in Animal Crossing: New Horizons for the Nintendo Switch, follow our advice for building your residence and community. Nintendo Switch consoles are often sold out, but you can still pick up the handheld-only Switch Lite, which is perfect for portable Animal Crossing. Any needs some love and attention. It’s just like when someone’s reading. Let her know she can talk to you and that you’re there for her. I will try to get them to talk tomorrow or at least talk with Amy if they're not ready yet. Animal Crossing is something that my partner is super into. Miscommunication is no one's fault, especially a parent trying their best. My father has been playing with her and Bella was doing very well. Amy very likely feels neglected by you and your father, and probably even Bella since they used to be so close. Keep him close. Thank you guys so much, I think we can take it from here. My sister has, thankfully, been doing extremely well: she’s 20 years sober, engaged to the love of her life, and has a great, very close relationship with my parents. She's a bit skeptical about going to therapy but I explained we can just try and if she doesn't jive we can always try again with another therapist or another avenue. Saying "Say what you feel, there is no wrong way to feel. What can I do? A safe environment of conversation with both of them just sitting in comfort with you. Animal Crossing: New Horizons. This game is meant to be played with other people. Thank you all so much. This was a really nice thing to read. New to Animal Crossing: New Horizons? I'll make sure to talk to her again and lay out some things for us to do together that can give us a chance to be technology free and have some quality time. I got my first job at 16 so I could take care of my own needs, and moved 3000 miles away by 18. It was incredibly hard on everyone including my daughters as all live together and my mother helped to take care of them for years while my father and I worked, they were very close. I struggle personally with whether I'm a good mother and I honestly cried with how many people said I was doing not just OK, but fantastic. Let’s have dinner (no phones or games) and talk. Occasionally villagers will give you quests. Redd wants to make up with Tom Nook but doesn’t know how to, so he’s reading “Relationship Advice for Dummies”. Honestly both my girls are absolutely amazing human beings and sometimes I have no idea how it happened. I was in my room attending a work call so I did not witness this firsthand but according to my father, Amy came into the living room and asked if she could try playing as well. Introducing Good News Gaming, the show where we highlight uplifting gaming news stories that'll warm your hearts. FYI, she is probably experiencing depression too. Like every moment she's not doing something important or mandatory ( like working or taking the dog out) she's playing AC. I'll focus on other ways for us to spend time together so that she can have that freedom to be in that world. Individual for both girls, and family therapy could help all four of you. This is perfect. I like the ideas you brought up and I'll try those out. Also, why not hangout with her while she plays? Puzzles might work (or not!) Teens now have a lot of adult worries thrown at them that we didn’t have growing up. Oh thanks! I was going to say the same - therapy for everyone. I would be echoing most of what was already said but I didn’t see anything about sharing a bedroom. The advice part is what was kind of tricky. ". Yeh I can imagine that more time has been spent consoling Bella about the exam results for example than congratulating Amy over the same thing. And encourage them acknowledge what they said was wrong and apologize to each... then maybe consider therapy as a family. They were sisters "attached at the hip" once and that can still be there, even with all that's happened. They went from talking together all night until I had to bust in and tell them to go to sleep, to Bella only giving one-word answers whenever Amy was around. You facilitating that can be amazing for everyone in the house and family. I never thought I'd be making one of these posts here but I'm at an utter loss and need some fresh eyes on this situation. <3. Sable). Most importantly, you need professional mental health experts for both girls. As a gamer you know that video games can offer a certain “safe space” or freedom that real life may not have. My father blames himself for not letting Bella give Amy her character but I think something like this was going to happen eventually if Amy is truly resentful, I just didn't think it would be so horrible and I wish I'd done something earlier. Right now is absolutely it. You have the right to every emotion you have" can be helpful for them becoming more comfortable. Easy to understand Stalk Market predictions and advice for Animal Crossing New Horizons! She said she wished Bella would just kill herself so our lives could go back to normal. Okay I think how much time she is spending playing is absolutely critical information, cuz there is a big difference between 5/10/15 hours a day. We are friendly of course, but not really close. Don't be a jerk and keep it safe for work 2. Also I could see when I started improving. My father and I took shifts accompanying Bella and stayed with her till she fell asleep as she was a suicide risk and posted online about wanting to kill herself and I was so so scared. I've tried playing the game but it's not all that interesting to me. Sorry the post is so long, I feel a bit better typing it all out. If she isn’t willing after a serious sit down to talk and work on your relationship and not become so invested in the game. I just started using Reddit to share meal prep ideas so I'm not super savvy! They’re very tense around each other still but have apologized and my father & I will be taking turns on the couch to give Bella my room so they can have a bit more privacy, you guys are right they’re both quite annoyed they’ve never had her own room before and hopefully after the pandemic we can move things around a bit so everyone has their own space. I hope you can find some good friends through mutual hobbies, church, etc. Welcome to the Animal Crossing subreddit! Give her someone to confide in, be her friend while all of her friends are out of reach. But we don’t need all the rest of the disparaging comments about “addiction”. Now she needs the support to learn how to walk again. As the other dude said, she could be doing way worse stuff, and while it may seem annoying it seems relatively harmless when compared to her snap chatting a random dude her cleavage. I had Amy and Bella (fake names) when I was only 22 and my late husband, their father, passed away when they were both still toddlers. A therapist can give her that guidance. Animal Crossing: 16 Amazing Terraforming Makeovers. In response to Animal Crossing: New Horizons fans interpreting the relationship between traveling NPCs Flick and C.J. She says that she's sorry and will be more aware but everytime I hear that game turn on I get annoyed. Secondly, snapping at a video game is clearly, to me, a sign of many pent up feelings. Cooking dinner together (or for her) and then watching a movie or show could be nice and give her a break from playing. I'm sure they love each other, such tension happens when hiding emotions. 1. If Amy knew exactly what Bella was going through, she would understand. Look, Bella clearly has insecurity issues that were not dealt with properly, and she probably hasn't handled processing grief healthily either. While Amy was figuring out the controls, she apparently destroyed one of Bella's rare flowers and Bella called her a "stupid sl*t". She would likely find so much joy in helping you get into it. Dude, if at all possible you should see if you can pick up another switch/switch lite and a copy to play with her. That may be what she is doing. Amy and Bella both scored amazing marks but while Amy managed to get into their dream school, Bella fell just short of the requirement. Do they need to talk and set aside time for each other? We are in a financially comfortable position thanks to my parents and my wonderful inlaws but while there were some real tough times they're both amazing, smart and capable young women. ♥ Like are you only jealous of a new hobby or is this getting in the way of her responsibilities. They normally share a room but my father's going to sleep on the couch today to let Bella have his room for tonight. It's driving me crazy. Track you and your friends' profits! Afterwards Bella told me everything and I immediately called her teachers to separate her from her "best friend". Maybe she doesn’t always want to be the stronger one. Do not wait on this. I think she also might appreciate if you got more involved. She could be doing much worse to make you jealous. I would also ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want because it sounds to me like it’s going downhill and needs to have some boundaries set up around her video games and talking about other things. They were inseperable when younger but around their teens started to have different friends and spent time apart which I thought was great because I wanted them to develop as individuals too. AC also offers a very simple system of feeling accomplished and rewarded which might be something she can’t access because of the covid situation. I've been an Animal Crossing fan for 19 years, ... We've removed some outdated seasonal tips and added advice on kicking out villagers. I hear all over how great a game it is it's just not for me. All of the family energy was (understandably) on her - so I turned almost inside-out, if that makes sense. OP, you’re doing a terrific job - these things unfortunately happen, but you’re doing a wonderful job of navigating it. Remember it’s a weird fucking time and it’s important that you retain who you are and she retains who she is while this is all happening. referring to the bug-obsessed artist as his "partner." Thank you for your kind wishes, I hope everything will be okay in the end. There’s a time and a place for self soothing actions. Unfortunately last year was also their O-Level year, a national exam all 16 year old students have to take. Please review the rules before posting. Use the pinned Q&A + friend code megathreads. She is simply keeping it together because Bella needs help so much and she doesn’t want to be a burden. plus you can work on them a little bit at a time. Press J to jump to the feed. Press J to jump to the feed. Mental health services were declared non-essential for a few weeks unfortunately and only just become essential again, but I'll try to get a therapist for Amy ASAP. I'm definitely into the game more than my partner but it means a lot when they show me they're happy for me when I show them a new fish I've caught, I'm sure you've had times when you get really into a game and she's doing that now, probably because she's stressed or anxious about all the pandemic stuff going on. Thank you. That being said your partner needs to learn to create boundaries and spend time doing other things such as spending time with you. Now, you can talk to people more often and get them to open up more to you (ex. Bella tried to give Amy her control stick but my father offered to let Amy play his character instead. He now thinks Bella was intentionally trying to avoid playing with Amy. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I used to play regularly but with my new job just mostly on the weekend. Amy doesn't fully understand Bella's situation and doesn't know how Bella feels about her. Some people find those activities relaxing and helpful for bonding. I let Bella down and didn't notice the signs until she broke down in school last year and they sent her home early. Amy has made some truly great and supportive friends who she calls on Zoom daily nowadays, but Bella met an incredibly toxic girl when she was 15. My best advice is to make Amy feel like she’s “home,” and that she can have emotions and victories and problems, too. Hit … Animal Crossing: New Horizons can be a deeply intimate game for its players, who often have years of history and expectations for the space. Best wishes and stay safe. Get her in therapy ASAP because otherwise as soon as she’s at uni she’s going to get some space, realise what has happens and absolutely break down. First, definitely try to facilitate conversation between the two. If there are any good subreddits, do tell me! I felt like the ultimate outsider. Try to take life one day at a time, one breath at a time if you need to. Yeah nowadays I don't spend as much time gaming as I used to. And also really, really regrettable. It's a tangent, but it's a truly thoughtful one. I was playing on acnl, letting Papi come in (or whatever the horses name is) then he said, Honey! It just requires an empty notebook and some pencils, but it can be as simple or as complicated as they want. Even now, go give her a hug. Animal Crossing is something that my partner is super into. Just maybe it would be helpful to have a no devices type evening where phones or whatever are aside and you guys just spend time together. That first time she needed the support. I preordered the game for her a long time before the boom in popularity and she was looking forward to it for ages. There's an animal crossing movie, you could try watching that with her! I thought she was embarrassed of her hobbies as she had been made fun of before for cosplaying but I failed to pursue it any further because I was too caught up in my job. Amy likely never healthily processed her grief due to prioritising her sister. Cookies help us deliver our Services. A simple “hey, when you’re done with that, I’d like to talk/let’s do X.”. Which is also understandable. Bella confided in me that she thought Amy was prettier than her (which makes no sense as they're identical twins) and smarter (both are equally brilliant). One day you probably wont be around and they have to decide whether they want to have each other for support or not. I'm ashamed to say that I largely have not paid much attention to Amy these last 10 months, and I think that's what caused the huge fight today. I told her I am so sorry for ignoring her and a lot of you are right, she felt a lot of pressure to be "no trouble" and not add more stress onto the situation, but because of that she's been hiding a lot of her own problems. ♥ It may mean sacrificing another space in the house but it would give the two of them some breathing room. 1st off, I'm using my mobile app - sorry for format errors. I can try again and give it another go maybe I can find something in there that I would like, As someone who's playing a lot of Animal Crossing right now, it's definitely helping me maintain my mental health and healthy lifestyle things (Like waking up at reasonable hours), She probably needs an escape because the world is scary right now - that's not a bad thing, Like someone said, planning some cute at home dates would be good. Im not guna say you need to learn Animal crossing cos I totally get it’s mot your thing. My boyfriend and I have gone on frequent Animal Crossing dates since the release and we're constantly trading random doodads. But the fact is that there are bigger issues here than just getting them to be civil. Bullet journaling is one part day planner, one part habit tracker and one part artistic journal where you pour out your soul. I told Bella that she still scored way above average and with all she was going through during the exam period it was a remarkable score but this started to make Bella jealous of Amy. P.S. What can I do to stop being to incensed by a video game? I stopped talking to my family entirely and just did my own thing. I don't know if they want to talk but I will try tomorrow. EDIT: Thank you to everyone for your suggestions and helpful tips! There were so many times I wished I had my family - graduations, celebrations, breakups, etc. OP please get flower back I bet Bella would love if you surprised her!! 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